light candles with dinner. climb back into bed on the weekends without feeling guilty. plan a vacation. wear high heels to brunch with friends. spend more time outside. be nicer to myself. eat breakfast for dinner. rearrange furniture. visit more museums. host monthly game nights. take cooking classes. hear more live music. go to the movies, if not just for the popcorn/soda/candy. buy our first piece of art. declutter, constantly. plan surprise date nights. take day trips. speak more spanish. less text messages, more calls.